Are You In An Abusive Relationship?

Are you in an abusive relationship? 

An alcoholic or addictive relationship may be marred by abuse. This symptom list may raise ones awareness of the problem. 

There are many signs of an abusive relationship. The primary sign is fear of your partner. Other signs include a partner who belittles you or tries to control you, and feelings of self-loathing, numbness, helplessness, and desperation. 

To determine whether or not you’re in an abusive relationship, answer the questions in the table below. The more questions to which you answer “yes,” the more likely your relationship is abusive. 

Signs of an Abusive Relationship 

Your Inner Feelings and Thoughts 

Do you : 

• fear your partner a large percentage of the time? 
• avoid certain topics out of fear of angering your partner? 
• feel that you can’t do anything right for your partner? 
• ever think you deserve to be physically hurt or mistreated? 
• sometimes wonder if you are the one who is crazy? 
• feel afraid that your partner may try to hurt or kill you? 
• feel afraid that your partner will try to take your children away? 
• feel emotionally numb or helpless? 
• think that domestic violence seems normal to you? 

Your Partner’s Violent or Threatening Behaviour 

Has your partner ever: 

• had a bad and unpredictable temper? 
• hurt you, or threatened to hurt or kill you? 
• threatened to take your children away, especially if you try to leave? 
• threatened to commit suicide, especially as a way of keeping you from leaving? 
• forced you to have sex when you didn’t want to? 
• destroyed your belongings or household objects? 

Your Partner’s Controlling Behaviour 

Does your partner: 

• try to keep you from seeing your friends or family? 
• make you embarrassed to invite friends or family over to your house? 
• limit your access to money, the telephone, or the car? 
• act excessively jealous and possessive? 
• try to stop you from going where you want to go or doing what you want to do? 
• check up on you, including where you’ve been or who you’ve been with? 

Your Partner’s Belittlement of You 

Does your partner: 

• verbally abuse you? 
• humiliate or criticise you in front of others? 
• often ignore you or put down your opinions or contributions? 
• blame you for their own violent behavior? 
• objectify and disrespect those of your gender? 
• see you as property or a sex object, rather than as a person? 

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Intimate Partner Violence The Role of Alcohol

Intimate Partner Violence: The Role of Alcohol

Episodes of intimate partner violence are associated with alcohol consumption. To explore this relationship further, researchers interviewed a

random sample of heterosexual couples at baseline and 5 years later. They assessed alcohol use and related problems, and the incidence (new cases)

and recurrence (cases at both follow-up and baseline) of male-to-female partner violence and female-to-male partner violence. Analyses included 1136 couples who were cohabitating and/or married at both baseline and follow-up. Partner violence was defined as a range of violent behaviours, such as slapping, kicking, forcing sex, and threatening with a gun or knife.

* At follow-up, the incidence of both female-to-male and male-to-female partner violence was only 6 percent. However, recurrence was more common (female-to-male violence 44 percent, male-to-female violence 39 percent).

* In unadjusted analyses, incidence and/or recurrence of partner violence was significantly associated with greater mean consumption by male perpetrators; heavy drinking (at least 5 drinks on an occasion in the past year) by male and female perpetrators; and/or alcohol problems among male and female perpetrators.

* Among these alcohol indicators, only mean consumption (among both female perpetrators and male victims) remained significantly associated with new or recurrent cases of female-to-male partner violence when analyses were adjusted for potential confounders.

Comments by Joseph Conigliaro, MD, MPH: Female-to-male partner violence was as common as male-to-female partner violence in this population-based sample, whereas male perpetration of partner violence is often the norm in clinical samples. Nevertheless, heavy episodic drinking, alcohol problems, and higher average alcohol consumption should be considered risk factors for partner violence and addressed in prevention efforts.

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We are Australia's leading award winning addiction treatment and rehab consultants for gambling, drugs, alcohol, sex, eating and internet addiction, along with eating behavioural disorders and co-dependency for Australasia and New Zealand.

Maria Pau is a 4x No. 1 best-selling author on the subjects of addiction and co-dependency and spiritual wellness. She is the Program Director of Coaching with Substance, the first of its kind in Australia as registered public benevolent institution, charity and not-for profit association that focuses on wellness using coaching principles of peak performance. We run a cutting edge holistic addiction treatment program and outpatient rehabilitation consultancy firm that ensures you are released from the shackles of addiction once and for all.

Primary care at CWS is personalised to treat each individual using programs that integrate mind, body and soul. CWS programs are enhanced by highly effective group coaching and therapeutic processes as well as individual coaching, spiritual insights, therapy and extensive aftercare assistance.

All clients are thoroughly assessed by a highly trained and experienced recovery coach, registered provisional psychologist, ordained Monk, mental health officer and certified naturopaths (including Ayurveda and Acupuncturist). Clients may also be referred for psychometric testing and assessment, if needed. International clients welcome.

We welcome enquiries from all English speaking people from Asia, Europe, Africa, India and South America.