Wednesday, 22 April 2015

20 Questions to see if you have an addiction to sex


The following are a series of statements from Sex Addicts that describe their feelings and behaviours around the addiction.

* Be honest with yourself.

1. I think about sex or romantic relationships most of the time.
2. I often feel shame, regret or remorse after sexual fantasy or behaviour.
3. I want to stop masturbating but I can’t.
4. I have difficulty staying monogamous in a relationship.
5. I break promises to myself to stop my unwanted sexual behavior.
6. My sexual behavior isolates me from my friends, family, etc.
7. My obsession with pornography interferes with my real relationships.
8. I obsessively sexualize people on the street.
9. I put myself at risk of sexually- transmitted diseases.
10. I’ve been afraid of my "double life" and sexual secrets being discovered.
11. I’ve spent a great deal of time or money on sex.
12. I have felt compelled to seek new sexual or romantic highs.
13. My sexual behavior has put me in dangerous situations.
14. I have hurt myself or others as a result of my sexual behavior.
15. I have engaged in any of the following: voyeurism; exhibitionism; anonymous sex; phone sex; trading for sex; paying for or being paid for sex; abusive sex.
16. I have been unable to say no to other people’s sexual advances.
17. I have risked or lost my job because of my sexual behavior.
18. I feel empty when not in a sexual or romantic relationship.
19. I feel sex is my most important need.
20. I am obsessed with romantic possibilities.
21. I flirt even when I don’t mean to.
22. I obsess about a specific person or act even though it may be painful.
23. I confuse sex with love.
24. My sexual behaviour has made my life unmanageable.

If you ticked 3 of the above the probability is high that you are suffering from Sex Addiction

Sex addiction is a self-diagnosed disease. The above statements are an aid to help you decide if you are addicted. If you have related to any of these statements, you are not alone. Treatment and recovery is possible. Call us today for a confidential assessment and treatment/rehab. 

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Primary care at CWS is personalised to treat each individual using programs that integrate mind, body and soul. CWS programs are enhanced by highly effective group coaching and therapeutic processes as well as individual coaching, spiritual insights, therapy and extensive aftercare assistance.

All clients are thoroughly assessed by a highly trained and experienced recovery coach, registered provisional psychologist, ordained monk, mental health officer and certified naturopaths (including Ayurveda and Acupuncturist). Clients may also be referred for psychometric testing and assessment, if needed. International clients welcome.

We also welcome enquiries from English speaking people from Asia, Europe, Africa, India and South America.

Primary care at CWS is personalised to treat each individual using programs that integrate mind, body and soul. CWS programs are enhanced by highly effective group coaching and therapeutic processes as well as individual coaching, spiritual insights, therapy and extensive aftercare assistance.

All clients are thoroughly assessed by a highly trained and experienced recovery coach, registered provisional psychologist, ordained Monk, mental health officer and certified naturopaths (including Ayurveda and Acupuncturist). Clients may also be referred for psychometric testing and assessment, if needed. International clients welcome.

We also welcome enquiries from English speaking people from Asia, Europe, Africa, India and South America.

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